This is for the people with short tempers, high egos and
average ability of patience and tolerance. You may be around someone some time
of the day, and literally saying, with such characteristics, possessed in mass
volumes under your skin, it is worthy of appreciation for those some-ones. Not
because they bear you but because they overlook your bad side, and see the
pearls under the shabby shells. Despite of you being into your usual selves, not
showing even a hint of negation in the qualities you possess, you are accepted,
appreciated, loved and cared for. If that is something to be highlighted, then
it has to be added that the one who belongs to your company is not to be taken
for granted in any way, which usually happens in course of time. Also instead
of pointing to the dirt on others, look at how much you have smitten into your
own.
This is to those dear and loved ones, little do you know
that when you speak, you speak to reply not to listen, not to think and then
say. It is not a point of accepting mistakes; it’s not a point of mistakes at
all!
It is all about allowing yourself and others to blend into
each other’s essence, of understanding, to know that the people around you are
like you only, neither great nor naive. To absorb the fact that they also have
some loopholes which you have to accept as they accept yours.
No one is perfect and nobody likes
change, thus it’s all about adjustment, understanding. Ah! But no
compromise! K! That doesn't lift the heavy payload over head and
heart. The word itself holds some sort of negativity! It works maybe at
workplace but not in relations.
If it is true and strong- the bond, then some things need
not be explained, scolded or lectured to someone and lead them somewhere
else, but to just let go, to give time to the heads to think and
reciprocate, to sustain what holds all together, a mutual trust!
After all there has to be bearings to hold the bond.
